How to Report Cyberstalking

I gave a talk at Cal State Northridge today, and one student asked me what to do if someone keeps contacting you through social media, creating new accounts every time you block that person, or trying to reach you through contacting your friends. This is called cyberstalking. I told her I didn't think there was a perfect answer, based on my own experience, but in the least after you've asked the person to stop and done all you can to stop the person from contacting you, there are reports you can file with the police, so I wanted to share that info here (especially because I forgot the name of one of the reports!)

There are at least a couple of police reports that can be filed when it comes to stalking and cyberstalking, and this may vary by state, so check with your state. Before we get into that though, here are a few things to do if you are being cyberstalked:

• Give the person one clear warning to not contact you again.
• If that person continues to contact you after you have given your warning, do not respond to her/him.
• Print out copies of evidence, such as emails or screenshots that can prove all the contact has come from the same person.
• Also keep a record of contact with police.
• Report the stalking to the site through which you are being stalked. For example, if your stalker continues to reach out via Instagram, report it to Instagram.
  
• If it still continues, go to the police.
  
• You can also contact one of these resources to help and suggestions, or other local resources such as campus organizations if you are a university student.
  
• If you haven't already, block the stalker.
  
• Also consider changing your email or social media handle, and even making your account private.
  
• Be careful about posting your location.
  

As mentioned, there are police reports you can file. At least in California, there are two possible reports. Depending on the situation and types of messages received, you may be able to file a Temporary Restraining Order. The other report you can file is a Harassing Phone Calls report, which also applies to e-communication. If you want to file a report, consider going with a friend.

Remember, while we oft use the term "stalking" loosely and joke about "stalking" our friends or love interest on social media, stalking is a crime and should not be taken lightly. Your safety is most important. For more information on stalking, visit the Stalking Resource Center, a Program of the National Center for Victims of Crime.